A whole new world

Today, remarks new journey for me, is a brand new day for me... a whole new world.

Wish me luck ! haha!

As of now, i am surfing net, chatting with friends, shaking my legs. Well, this is what a person will do or enjoy before they get busy , busy and busy! Don't envy me!

Flash back on the "day"

Monday (7th Sep 2009), "she" asked me to see her. Guess what is the topic for the discussion?

S: "she" ; M : Me

S: your replacement will be here today, so what you want to do. You have 2 choices,
a) You tender resignation
b) I fire you

M: **keep quiet, I wanted to tell her i will tender, but i still want to see what else she will do to me and what else she wants to say to me. so as per what i expect, she continue with her "valuable" talk**

S: You not worth the money the company paying you. You not qualify to hold the current position that you are holding.

M: **deep in my heart, i am laughing** why? Because she is the one who interviewed me, she is the one who hire me!! So if she thinks i am not worth the money and not qualify to hold my current position, so means that she judge me wrongly when she interviewed me! LOL! Oh..what a big mistake she had done in her life!

S: During that time, because we desperate need someone to backfill the person who's leaving, that's why we are willing to pay you that much.

M: **still keep quiet** who cares u r desperate looking for people or whatsoever. bottom line is, the company willing to pay me the salary that i asked for...so if you think i am overpaid, then u should have hilight this to the HR when you want to hire me

S: you don't have such a big head, you should wear such a big hat. You are not worth the money that the company pay you.

M: **Duh** 佛都有火. (Buddha also got fire) But i still remain cool and keep showing her my silly face. Since i already decided to tender, what for i go justify and clarify and explain to her so much.

she continue fi li fa la talk non stop and i listen half don't listen half until don't sure for how long, finally she ler me go. she asked me to tell her my final decision by end of the day.

Oh yeah, before i left, she said:-
S: I want you to train up the replacement and then come to me and tell me whether he can handle the job or not.

M: **who cares! Again, u r the one who hire him, and you go and access him! I am leaving anyway, i don't even bother whether he will be able to handle the job or not, coz this is none of my business**

For the whole session, i just "ummm", "ok". and nothing much. What else u want me to say. Beg her? Cry in front of her? Or what knee down and apologies?" If i do so, i must be losing my mind !

Later i went to my desk, check on the chat archive between me and my replacement, he rold me he will be here on Tuesday (8th Sep 2009). I don't even bother to let her know that she's wrong, coz she may scold me back saying i gave her wrong info bla bla. She always has her own reason to scold me, as to her, i am stupid, i am dumb. And she is the greatest of all! So who cares!

What have i done on this auspicious day 09/09/09

Lots of people especially couple choose to get registered, married on this auspicious day, 09/09/09. SO DO I!! Me getting married? Nope, me going for giving birth? Nope, me going for my birthday celebration? Nope......then what did i do then...
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I, finally TENDER my RESIGNATION! After so long, finally i did that on this auspicious day. He said i should have done it on 09/09/09 09:09:09am! Geez, i missed the auspicious time though. Never mind, i pick the day but not the time!

With this, i hope good luck will come to me and follow me as long as i wish!

How much does happiness cost?

Can someone tell me how much do i need to pay for a day of happy at work?
I am more than willing and happy to pay for it.

Can someone tell me how to avoid get blame for things that not under my job scope?
I am more than happy to pay you if you can give me to tips or hints.

Can someone tell me how to how to get out from this messy place?
I am more than happy to pay you if you can get me out from this place.

I know, money is not everything, but without money, everything also cannot do.
That's why i am still stuck here even though i am not happy! even though my life is so miserable! even though everyday i go to work with happy face, and the moment i step into my work place, my back started to get shoot now and then!

If everyone don't have to work, how nice!
If money can buy happiness, how nice!
If i have money and power to shut these people away, HOW NICE!

I need your input

Chat with a friend on my thought of resign and stay at home.
He said, as long as hubby can support the household expenses, then can consider. But, actually my case is more complicated, as the problem is myslef.

First, i cannot let go my salary;
Second, i cannot let go my income;
Third, i cannot let go my wages;
so overall conclusion is, i cannot let go my pay!

So how?

And he said it took him 2 yrs to think over his wife's proposal to be full time house wife. So does it means i need to nag hubb for another few ore yrs before he agree to let me become full time housewife? No no, i don't want to be full time housewife, i want to be full time MUMMY. Because my full time housewife = maid; as full time housewife need to wash clothes, sweep floor, mop floor, cook, iron clothes...eww ; whereas full time mummy is just send, pick up kids from school, play with them, supervise them on their homework. Am i right? LOL!

So continue to work or continue to appeal for full time mummy application??

Welcome to 'si lai' club!

Me and my new look

One fine day ~ 9 of Feb, i decided to go ahead for hair cut, so asked hubb to drop me at the hair saloon. He thought i am going for hair trim, so when he picked me up, he get shocked seeing me with short hair...yeah! I really go for a REAL hair CUT! Feel so fresh now. Economy is bad mah..so must save some hair shampoo!! yeah right!

So now, no worry that Kelvina nd Kaitlyn will pull my hairs! And no need to worry what hair pin to use to match with my clothes every morning!

My hair used to be that long......

and now, it's become like this!

Challenge #1

Took the challenge to be at home with Kelvin for half a day. So far so good and fun!

Hubb is at home with us on first half and he has to go to office in the second half, so i am staying at home with Kelvin alone on the second half of the day. Kinda fun and interesting.

First, i need to leave the whining toddler in the room while i prepare his milk in the kitchen. I need to be able to stand the whining from him, he will keep calling "mummy!mummy!" from the room and i will be busy responding to him "yes, dear, mummy is in the kitchen preparing milk for you!"

Then, i need to tug him to bed by using lots of tricks. Kelvin very playful and will refuse to sleep if you do not FORCE him to sleep. I tried to use the same tactic as what i do for every night which is tell him story and hope that he wll doze off, but this way fail for day time. As he sees the sky is bright, he will refuse to sleep even though i put the curtain on, but yet some sun light still can come into the room. So i gotta lye beside him, talk to him, also fail...until finally, i asked him to keep quiet, listen to the sound of the air coming from the air cond. Phew, this work!! Within 1 min, he doze off!

After 45 mins, when i was in kitchen getting myself a cup of water, heard toy sound coming from the room, quickly go into the room, he was sitting on the bed, facing the window playing with his toys. Quickly, lye him down and talk to him, tried to ask him listen to the sound of the air cond, this time doesn't work, so let him whine for a while and the hug him tight phew...he fall asleep again.

So, with this achievement, do i qualify to be SAHM?? hahaha....

Be TOUGH, Be STRONG!

Nowadays i no longer give face to HER. If she comes to me find trouble unreasonably, i will fight back softly. Why suddenly i decide to speak out? Because i have my own place, ngek ngek ngek (cunning smile) Shhhhh...for those who know what is my plan, wish me luck ok! For those who doesn't know what is my plan, stay tune and u will know after 5 mths time!

Well, everyone has their own limit of tolerance, and don't take it as granted that you can play around with other's tolerance limit.

And thanks to all of your encouragement word when i feel down after i get tortured by HER.
I need lotsa lotsa lotsa wishes and blessing from ALL OF YOU to make my plan come true!!!